The reason so many marriages are in shambles is lack of understanding.

1 Peter ¬†3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge…
The reason husbands don’t stay with their wives is because they don’t understand.

He can only dwell with you only if he understands you. Likewise the wives need to understand to how men think.

For exponential knowledge on how men should relate with their wives and women should relate with their husbands watch He-motions by Bishop T.D Jakes.